Guys these days really do want their woman to be totally satisfied in bed. However, sex survey after sex survey show that many of women are totally unsatisfied in sex and worse still, have a lot of trouble having orgasms.

As a qualified sexologist I have put together simple tips and techniques to improve your lovemaking and make sex more fulfilling.

What Men Do Wrong In Foreplay

A lot of men I talk to really seem to be focusing more on pleasing their partner and trying to get them to orgasm. The problem with is is that they forget to relax and really enjoy sex. They are in their heads thinking about what to do next and not in their body or energy.

What Turns A Woman Off Sex

Most women are sensitive and pick up on the lack of sensual energy from their partner and the feeling that the man wants to change them and MAKE them more orgasmic. This really turns most women off. A woman wants to be accepted and loved as she is.

Why Women Hate Silent Types

If a man is in his body and pleasure and communicates this by his touch, his eye contact and his erotic sounds, a woman will open and go deeper into her orgasmic spaces. A lot of men are totally silent making love but want their lover to be the opposite!

Foreplay Touch Exercise

I often get a man to do a touch exercise with their partner. The man just touches and really feels the sensations under his fingers, instead of trying to do anything.

Be In The Here And Now

Making love this way really puts you in the present, here and now. You start to enjoy every touch, and every minute of your connection with your lover. You start to drop the goal of going anywhere or trying to push your lover to an orgasm. The time making love starts to go on and on.

The funny thing is when a man is more present in lovemaking and drops his goal approach to pushing for orgasms he finds his lover does become a lot more orgasmic. Now an orgasmic woman is a happy woman.

Dirty Talking For Hot Sex

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By combining dirty talking and becoming expert in oral sex are two great techniques to get your woman to orgasm.

Focusing on pleasure instead of the goal of sex is one of the best tips I can give.

Have fun exploring these tips in my guides above.

If you do something new each time you make love, you will really find out what turns on your woman.