We can talk about the importance of great foreplay tips and techniques for hours. However, one thing that women really want in their lover is a good emotional connection, lots of love and energy  leading up to hot sex. Spending lots of time in foreplay can be disappointing if there is not just that magic in the sexual energy and connection.

So What Can We Do to Improve the Connection?

If you think about it, foreplay is really just about touch, the touch of fingers or hands or even the touch of ones breath on your lover.

If we can one improve the quality of touch, then more sexual energy will be created in any foreplay method.

Simple Foreplay Exercise

The best way to really change how to touch our partner is to do a simple exercise. Feeling this in your body is the best way to learn a new skill rather than just thinking about it.

And yes, thinking in sex is the worst thing to do. Most women are very sensitive to a mans energy and attention. They can really feel it if he is just in his head trying to please and not in his sexual energy and pleasure.

The exercise is to touch your lover with thoughts to please her for a minute. Now change this and touch with total concentration on the feelings, pleasure and sensations under your fingers.

Now ask your lover which touch felt the best. You will find the more present you are in your fingers and the less you are in your head, the more pleasure your part er will receive.

More Great Foreplay Tips

• Take your time
• Slow down the touch
• Touch all areas of the body including the inner legs, toes, hair and fingers
• Take ages touching the breasts
• Use your lips and tongue
• Blow on your lovers body
• Use fur, silk and feathers
• Talk dirty to ramp up the sexual energy (see below)

Take the Foreplay Experience and Feelings into Sex.

Now one can extend these tips to intercourse. The more your attention is on the sensations of the penis the more energy will get transmitted to your lover and the more turned on she will become.

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