We can talk about foreplay techniques for hours.
However, one thing that women really want is high quality
foreplay. Spending a long time in foreplay techniques can be
disappointing if there is not that magic in the sexual energy and
connection.
If you think about it, foreplay is really just about touch, the
touch of fingers or hands or even the touch of ones breathe on
your lover.
If we can one improve the quality of touch, then more sexual
energy will be created in any foreplay method.
The best way to really change how to touch our partner is to do a
simple exercise. Feeling this in your body is the best way to
learn a new skill rather than just thinking about it.
And yes, thinking in foreplay is the worst thing to do. Most women
are very sensitive to a man's energy and attention. They can
really feel it if he is just in his head trying to please and not
in his sexual energy and pleasure.
The foreplay exercise is to touch your lover with thoughts to
please her for a minute. Now change this and touch with total
concentration on the feelings, pleasure and sensations under your
fingers.
Now ask your lover which touch felt the best. You will find the
more present you are in your fingers and the less you are in your
head, the more pleasure your parter will receive.
Now one can extend this to intercourse. The more your attention is
on the sensations of the penis the more energy will get
transmitted to your lover and the more turned on she will become.
Enjoy this great foreplay technique.
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